Expectations for weekly meetings with me
For most students, the default schedule of weekly 50-minute meetings with me works best.
That doesn't mean less frequent meetings couldn't work, with less frequent meetings sometimes being appropriate. I believe that meeting more than once a week will hamper your
independence.
Below are some of my expectations about our meetings. To help achieve them,
let me point out a practice of my colleague Prof. Christine Berkesch, whose mentoring style I admire. She has this LaTeX file, generating this PDF. She asks her students to follow its instructions, and before their weekly
meeting each week, asks that the student always
type up a new section in Overleaf containing the info listed there, so that she can read it before the meeting. I strongly encourage you to adopt this same practice before all of our meetings, especially if you are worried about meeting the expectations below.
- It's your 50 minutes.
Don't be shy about interrupting when some other person is in my office and your meeting time starts.
- Try to keep it to 50 minutes
So that subsequent students can have their allotted time.
- Be clear and concise.
- Socializing and professional development versus research.
Limit social chat and consultation on technical issues of professional development to no more than 10 minutes.
Our meeting times are for us to discuss your research.
- Showing me your proofs, but checking them yourself.
Ultimately, as a mathematician, you are responsible for checking your own proofs. We all make mistakes.
But you need to learn when you are having trouble writing down a proof because you haven't truly understood something well, and/or your proof is actually wrong. This an essential part of developing independence.
I will want to understand your proofs at varying levels of detail, but don't rely on me to have the final word on checking your proof.
- Showing anyone proofs.
Nothing takes more mental energy than reading a proof, or listening to someone explain it.
This is why it is absolutely crucial for you to simplify and polish your proofs before you try to explain them to others, or ask them to read it. Do not squander your audience's mental energy.
- Editing your writing.
As a beginning student, I may be willing to offer you more edits on your writing. But be prepared that I am very picky about writing, and will complain about your writing when I find it unclear. As you progress, I should be reading what you write less and less-- after you graduate, I won't be there to read it at all. This means that you should really try to polish your writing
as perfectly as you can before you show it to me.